In her past life she was: impatient when I was late (which was/is always), impatient when I talked to much (which is usually), and impatient when I made a mess (which is often).
In her new life, she doesn’t have time to worry about me. And she is patient. So. Patient.
Consider Halloween evening. She was duct-taping together Alex’s costume, making her own, and holding Abby, who couldn’t stand to be out of her arms. When Sus would set her down Miss Abby would scream bloody murder—like the kind of screams that make your ear drums rattle. After two hours, I really thought I was going to have to take a walk around the house—I couldn’t listen to it anymore! As I am slowly working myself into a panic, I look over at Sus, who is patiently watching her baby scream as if the world is ending, and hear her say (calmly): “Maybe she’s teething.”
She floored me. No anger. No frustration. No panic. Just genuine concern for the Munchkin.
My sister is amazing.

And patient.
